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It’s easy to keep going.
To stay in motion because stopping feels like losing ground. But somewhere along the way, we confuse stamina with strength and exhaustion with commitment.
Leaders don’t burn out because they don’t care — they burn out because they care too much, for too long, without refueling.
Self-care isn’t indulgence. It’s stewardship. It’s saying, “I will not abandon the person I’ve been entrusted to lead — myself.”
At P2Excellence, we help leaders live and lead from wholeness — because high-impact leadership isn’t sustainable without it.
The Leadership Challenge
Most of us were taught to manage our time, not our energy.
- We know how to schedule, plan, and deliver — but not always how to renew.
- We skip lunch, shorten workouts, and call that “sacrifice.”
- We say we’ll rest when things slow down — but they rarely do.
- We tell ourselves we’re fine, but fine is not the goal. Whole is.
The truth is, you can’t compartmentalize exhaustion.
If you’re running on empty, it shows…
in your patience, creativity, empathy, and even in your decision-making.
Tired leaders shrink possibility. Rested leaders expand it.
Why Whole-Life Leadership Matters
Self-care isn’t about balance — that word suggests an even scale, and life doesn’t work that way.
Whole-life leadership is about integration: work, family, faith, health, friendships, and purpose woven together in rhythm.
When we are whole, we lead differently:
- We listen longer.
- We react less.
- We inspire more.
Our presence changes the room. And in the long arc of leadership, presence matters more than productivity.
A Simple Framework: Pause — Protect — Pursue
Pause:
Create breathing room in your schedule. Five minutes of stillness, a walk, a prayer, a journal entry.
Margin isn’t wasted time; it’s where wisdom gathers.
Protect:
Guard what refuels you. Say no to good things that crowd out the best things. Turn off the noise.
Boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re bridges to sanity.
Pursue:
Reclaim joy. Invest in relationships, hobbies, learning, faith.
Your team doesn’t need a perfect leader; they need a present one — someone who remembers how to live.
Why Now?
As the year draws to a close, the temptation is to sprint. But finishing strong isn’t about doing more — it’s about doing what matters with a full heart and clear mind.
- When you lead from depletion, you spread depletion.
- When you lead from wholeness, you spread hope.
This season, choose wholeness. Not someday - now!
Why You?
Because your influence is sacred. People don’t just watch how you work — they watch how you live. They notice whether you take a breath, a vacation, or a Sabbath.
Your habits teach your team what health looks like. A healthy leader creates a healthy culture. And that might be your most important legacy.
Challenge:
This month:
- Reclaim and prioritize the restorative practices you’ve been neglecting.
- Notice when you feel most alive and intentionally create the conditions for that to happen more often.
- Consistently model healthy rhythms for your team and family.
Self Reflection:
Ask yourself:
- Where am I giving more than I’m receiving?
- What would change if I treated rest as responsibility, not reward?
- Where do I need to trade hustle for healing?
Leadership maturity isn’t about how much you can carry — it’s about knowing when to set things down.
Hack:
- Schedule renewal like a meeting. Add “Quiet Hour” or “Recovery Walk” to your calendar.
- Start the day with alignment. Before checking email, ask: “What’s mine to do today?”
- End with gratitude. One line before bed — “Today, I’m thankful for…”
- Keep a ‘Joy List.’ A simple reminder of what fills your tank when it runs low.
When to Consider Hiring a Coach:
If you find yourself:
- Unable to slow down or switch off, even when you try.
- Feeling that rest equals lost productivity.
- Struggling to recover joy or creativity.
- Wanting to redesign your rhythm of work, leadership, and life for the next season.
Coaching can help you build new habits of reflection, renewal, and resilience — so your leadership and life align again.
Action Steps:
Living Whole
Self-care is not selfish — it’s sacred stewardship.
The best leaders I know have learned to tend to their souls as carefully as their spreadsheets.
Start with one act of renewal this week.
- Go outside.
- Laugh with someone you love.
- Read something that has nothing to do with work.
Then notice how it changes the way you lead. You don’t have to choose between excellence and rest. You just have to live in rhythm with both.
I Believe in You
You are capable of leading well and living well. You don’t need to prove your worth by how tired you are.
Let this be the month you remember that your presence — rested, grounded, and whole — is the greatest gift you give to those you lead.
And I believe in you,
*P.S. - As a reminder, we are covering the 12 Critical Competencies of High-Impact Leadership this year.
Next month…Self-Care.
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