Mastering the Art of Managing Up

by Nancy Vepraskas  - February 13, 2024

- A deeper dive into the aspect of leadership - 

As we step forward into the new year, let’s embrace our Leadership Journey and take a deeper dive into the aspect of leadership that is often most difficult as we move up the “corporate ladder.” You’ve already demonstrated your prowess in managing up, it’s part of the reason you’ve ascended to your current level of success. Yet, each level of the organization and each year brings new challenges and opportunities.

I invite you to join me in a proactive assessment: What will ‘Managing Up’ look like for you this year? Let’s identify the strategies that will elevate your interactions with leadership and propel your career to even greater heights.

Managing Up

Proactive Assessment
Which behaviors serve you?
  • Which behaviors serve you in this season and which do not?
  • What behaviors used to work, but don’t seem to work as well now?
  • What behaviors seem to be your superpowers?
  • How can you continue to leverage them more intentionally?
Where have you been of help?
  • How often do you find yourself going home, complaining about how your boss isn’t helping, as opposed to discussing where you have been of help?
  • If it is not at least balanced between serving and complaining, what needs to change?
  • And if you are the responsible one (and you are!), what can you, what will you change?
Which behaviors serve you?
  • Which behaviors serve you in this season and which do not?
  • What behaviors used to work, but don’t seem to work as well now?
  • What behaviors seem to be your superpowers?
  • How can you continue to leverage them more intentionally?

The goal here is to create organizational success. In other words, success for the company, by which we and our teams also benefit.

We increase our success when we focus up and study our bosses’ needs and wants. We learn their style, their strengths, their blind spots. We learn how they see the team and the marketplace. And we get smart about it.

As we move up in the organization, we come to realize that our relationships with bosses are key to our success.

As a reminder, Managing Up is one of the six milestones of The Leadership Journey. We started this year with a wholistic view of this journey. If you missed January’s post or if you want to revisit it, you can find it here.

This month, we are focusing on “Managing Up”. I’ve chosen this as the place to start, since frankly, my clients often find it the hardest skill to master. We have been trained to think we are required to work down the organization, developing, protecting, making up for the shortcomings down the organization. And we consequently expect our bosses to do the same. But as Senior Leaders with strong desires for successful impact, the reality is we are also expected to manage upstream needs.

I confess that while Managing Up is the common terminology, I prefer the ides of “Focus Attention Up and Out” or maybe “Strategic Support”. The term “Managing Up” can be perceived as manipulative. “Giving to Get.” That’s not at all what I am talking about here. It’s not what I want for you. We are learning to focus on what senior management (or the Board of Directors) require of us so that the organization can thrive.


When we were managers, we looked to Senior Leadership to take care of things when we felt disempowered. We wanted them to focus on us. But now as senior leaders, we have the responsibility (and often the accountability) to help the organization, its customers, and its employees to prosper. That means we are asking every day, what do the people I report to need from me to achieve our common purpose. It’s not just results (although that’s a big part of it), it’s the way I interact with others, the way I conduct myself.

We ask ourselves

  • How can I proactively address the challenges my boss faces and align my actions with their expectations?
  • What actions can I take to support and/or anticipate needs to execute this vision?
  • How can I better align with her/his vision?

Effective leadership involves not only leading across and down, but also partnering effectively with those in higher authority. Below are five things to consider:

Understanding the Needs of Your Boss(es) and Your Board

  • Can you clearly articulate what your boss or, in some cases, what the Board is asking of the company?
  • Do you know the opportunities and the threats?
  • Do you see where you can make it easier for your boss(es) to be successful?
  • Where can you release pressure?
  • And, as a result of your action, how can you gain (ask for) sponsorship and advocacy from your boss(es) – not because it’s their job, but because you have earned it?

Things TO consider:

What

Acknowledge the significance of aligning with superiors’ visions and goals. Give thought to what your boss would say you need to understand.

WhY

Because enhancing this alignment secures trust and fosters a shared vision.

How

Prioritize understanding your superiors’ concerns and aspirations. Anticipate their needs and proactively address organizational challenges. Listen well, ask more, accept often.

Balanced and Constructive Communication

  • Think up, not down. What is it your boss wants? It’s not about what you want.
  • Do you know, do you understand, and do you accept your boss(es) communication needs and style?
  • Do you naturally keep your boss(es) informed of critical information that allows them to be of assistance, let you do your job, and not be caught by surprise?
  • Are you communicating good news as well as difficult news?
  • Are you leaning into their expertise and the things that energize them?

Things TO consider:

What

Emphasize assertive yet receptive communication to foster an open dialogue.

WhY

Because establishing an environment of comfortable discussions fosters collaboration.

How

Seek feedback and engage in constructive conversations aligned with superiors’ expectations. Quite simply, put yourself in their shoes. Learn their communication preferences and align your style to effectively convey key information.

Results-Oriented Collaboration

  • Do you view your superiors as partners with whom you can collaborate effectively to deliver tangible outcomes?
  • If this perspective isn’t your current approach, what steps can you take to shift towards a more collaborative and result-driven relationship with your leadership?

Things TO consider:

What

Keep your boss(es) informed as you produce results. And where possible, keep them engaged. Ask yourself, for each project and initiative, what would your boss consider to be a good results-oriented collaboration?

WhY

Because demonstrating accountability and results-driven efforts builds credibility.

How

Ensure effective communication channels and seek support while delivering impactful deliverables and results.

Continuous Learning and Adaptation

  • How are you continuing to add value to the organization with your skills and abilities?
  •  Are you being the asset your organization and boss needs?
  • If your boss were to hire your replacement, what skills, abilities, and experiences would they look for? Do you possess them?
  • How are you leveraging the experiences of your management?
  • Are you asking good questions?
  • Taking the time to actively listen to the stories, direction, and insight?

Things TO consider:

What

Decide to learn, not only on your own, but from your boss’s experience.

WhY

Because your bosses want to be respected, and they have experiences to share.

How

Seek opportunities to learn new skills and approaches from your superiors, showcasing your respect for their experience and your commitment to growth. Keep up with industry and job requirements, and continue to upskill and learn on the job. Leverage mentorship (both formal and informal).

Promoting a Culture of Partnership

  • We have all heard that culture starts at the top. How are you perpetuating that culture to your team?
  • What words, behaviors and recognitions are you emulating to reinforce the culture?

Things TO consider:

What

Foster a culture of unity and alignment with superiors’ goals by talking about it.

WhY

Because it’s the partnerships that will build the organizational vision.

How

Embrace a Servant Leadership mindset, ensuring your superiors’ success aligns with your own and that of your team. Focus on the mindset that serves the organizational good. Decide each day how to be in service to your boss. It’s that simple.

Imagine the profound impact you can have on both your personal success and your team’s achievements as we — as you — commit to mastering the art of managing up in 2024.


Your dedication to elevating your leadership and fostering impactful collaborations is the cornerstone of your success. You cannot achieve your highest impact if you are working against or are simply in misalignment with your superiors. That’s a fact.

Your Goal then becomes:

To master the dynamics of managing up

Focusing up and out — by aligning with your boss’s needs and contributing to their success, thereby fostering a culture of mutual success.

Become indispensable

A trusted ally who is seen as an extension of your boss’s vision and leadership.

Warm Regards,

* P.S. In 2024, I am committed to helping you excel in your unique leadership journey. Join me on Tuesdays as we discuss managing up, influencing across, developing down, stepping up knowledge, skills, and networks, and dropping behaviors that no longer serve us. If I can be of service to you, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

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Nancy Vepraskas

Nancy Vepraskas is a recognized expert in leadership performance, employee engagement, and culture building. Specializing in the people side of business, Nancy guides leaders in activating change, optimizing talent, and improving processes and strategies to achieve business goals. The results include happier, more motivated employees; heightened customer commitment; and improved bottom-line performance.

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